Originally posted by Andrew_C:[..]
do u have any tips or websites/ vids that u've used for drums??
I actually learned it by watching regular live videos, nothing "drummer oriented". If you alredy know how the basic rock beat works, bass drum and hi hats, snare drums and hi hats, then you are already on your way. This is interesting too http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Matched_grip
I strongly recommend you to use the german grip, like Neil Peart does
Once you can understand what people are playing just by listening, all you have to do is practise, to get you coordination working well. There are really no secrets.