Yep, my hours are already getting majorly cut next week (to be fair, its possible they are just compensating for the insane amount of hours I had this week.)
In no order, my friend who is gay, was on a gay dating website, and found a profile for a friend who claims he is straight. My other friend just wont let it go with a girl he likes, who he has made no progress with in the year+ has pursued her, and refuses to back off, even though she recently got a boyfriend, so I am considering, just asking her(shes a friend, and co-worker) to shoot him down straight up, which will crush him, for him own good. And on the personal front, one of my co-workers has a crush on me, I'm pretty sure, which annoys me, since I consider dating co-workers unprofessional, and she is at least 4 years younger than me, if not more, I would guess, so even considering anything makes me feel like a sleazy old man. I'm just going to role with see no evil, hear no evil, speak no evil.
In two months, my dryer broke down, then the hot water system broke down, then my beloved dog died at 9 years, my refridgerator packed it in as well, and my daughter has been ringing me ongoing for money issues where i've had to help her out with alot of money as shes not mentally well either and stresses out easily, now the old fridge is on the front yard its an eyesaw and the dead dryer is still here and we dont know how we are going to get rid of them so we're stuck. We replaced the fridge, the hot water is still weakly warm so we can still only ''just'' shower till ive got time to pick up a new one which I cant yet bc im going to spend a month at daughters bc she cant afford rent on her own. Need to also replace the dryer, so its winter here and no dryer sucks, and heaters are too expensive, would like a pass go collect 200 right now lol if it makes any crazy sense and on top off all that im not getting enough sleep so I need to change my medications but cant do that till I come back a month from daughters and its a long process bc I need a referal to change my meds bc im classified loopy bc my brain malfunctions. So there you have it
Yours sounds like a bunch of stuff breaking down though. Mine is related to my personal life, and the personal lifes of my friends, and I have no idea, how to handle it.
So he deny's he is gay, just leave him be, he's not ready to come out with it, his conscience is bothering him or he doesnt want family members to know, or you could confront him and perhaps change his mind if that can ever happen. Tell your friend she's not interested in him and that he is obsessed and to move on or you will tell her because you think he needs to resolve the problem, or you could just keep quiet and leave it to her to sort out or her boyfriend will. There's nothing wrong with dating a co-worker, lust has no boundaries its chemical, and whats 4 years nothing, depending how old you are Aaron if your 20 then she does need to grow up more, and if you really are not interested, start calling her little sis or something or tell her straight '' I dont date younger girls and especially co-workers, but be polite bc you work with her, you dont want to be caught up in some kind of trouble with the boss.
1. Its vaguely funny, because he's always claiming to be banging chicks.We always figured he was getting nowhere near the amount he claimed to, but now there's other possibilities.
2. Trying it. I was going to ask her to just shoot him down, and get it over with for his own good, but shes quitting, and I don't work with her before her last day.
3. I'm 24. I can deduce that she is over 18, based off of labor law, and the amount of hours they'll work her for, and also that she is probally over 20, as we don't seem to hire many people under 20. hard to gauge as she looks young, and has this perpetual deer in the headlights/lost puppy kind of look. Neither of us has been there that long (I actually think we started the same week), but I work in the kitchen, so its easier for me to fit in with everyone, since I don't have to interact with customers, and have more oppurtunities to interact with co-workers, wheras she works front counter, and as such essentially interects with customers excusively most of her shifts.
Do you like her ? does her age bother you ? The perpetual deer in the headlight/lost puppy would bother me though haha but if you think shes ok give her a try, you have been lonely for so long, you need a companion to bring a smile to your face
I think shes a nice kid. I cant decide if the age gap bothers me that much, or not though. The perpetually lost vibe don't really bother me actually, as I assume she must see me as some kind of stability, or some shit like that. I started suspecting she liked me, when our shifts both started at the same time, and she just followed me back and forth between two rooms for like 15 minutes (I stretch before I go on shift, and I kept checking the clock.). We talked a little about what hours we had been working, but mostly she just seemed to be following me around like a lost dog. Probally if some people had done it, it could have seemed creepy but she didn't. Also, the silence really was no awkward, and i usually find silences awkward.
Like I said, the age gap is what I am most conflicted on.
I think thats cute! Shes twenty, twenty is a sensible and mature age enough to be serious, my daughter is twenty and she knows better, really four years is nothing, im 38 and although I like older men, it would not be a bad thing if I was dating a 30 year old or even a 50 year old, because theres a certain age in your life where you know yourself and what you like and twenty would be that age for some and yet others its at thirty for slow learners lol, I wouldnt worry about it I say take it slow, and give it a go, but you need to be friends before your lovers, its important because if things go wrong, it could be ugly at work, and if you had established a friendship first you have a better foundation to work out crap if it does not work out.
Happy for you man