1. Originally posted by Buttons:Thats pretty cool for an insomniac! I only got 4 hours last night but it was pleasurable and if i get tired during the day it takes forever to sleep at night if i did during the day.
    Have you heard from her since?

    Saw her today taking her dogs out, when I was walking home. Said hi, but did not stop to chat. Was in a hurry home to watch the ALDS. Plus it looked like there was some work going on at her house, and didn't want to get in the way. In any case she seemed fairly happy to see me(or at least not pissed at me). Really wish I told her to call me as I walked away though.

    Given that we work together, and she lives less than two blocks from me, I figure that there's a pretty high probability we hang out again at some point, unless I really piss her off. Just a matter of when. Especially since I got invited to a party she is planning anyway.

    My new goal, is to try to just take things at face value. Being paranoid, about everyone's secret intentions is burning me the fuck out. If she says she had a good time hanging out with me, I'll just assume she did. I will say she seemed interested in ending up as more than just friends. Mentioned several times having broken up with her last boyfriend, and at one point, when she moved from sitting on the floor, to a couch, she seemed to be worried, that I thought she was trying to get away from me, and mentioned that she was moving to the couch because her back was hurting. Also, she at one point asked me, if I wanted anything to eat, and when I said no, she asked if I was really not hungry, or just trying to avoid being an annoying house guest, or something like that (do not remember exact words. Was at like 2 in morning), and that she did not care at all if I wanted something to eat.
  2. Cool, just take your time if she just broke up with someone, but thats awesome stuff, just if you like her dont forget to flirt occasionally otherwise it could turn into just a friendship
  3. I made sure to flirt a bit. Course to be fair, I'm not a vocal flirt. I've always been more a body language type of guy.
  4. Been 5 days and she ain't called me yet. She ain't going to. It was a mistake to try to get involved with a co-worker anyway. Too bad. Best time I had in a long time. Gonna do the smart thing, and just walk away with my dignity.
  5. Okay. I feel like a jackass now. just walked past her house, to go do some boatwatching (yes I'm weird), and saw her. She's been pretty sick the last few days. Did not straight up say it, but I got the impression she did not want to be seen like that. I told her she's still reasonably pretty, when shes sick, and in pajamas.
  6. That's sweet, at least you said something nice, I doubt I'll be coming in here anymore but but can add me on Facebook and I'll chat to you there, I'll just pm you, love to know how everything goes for you
  7. Was rather nice to drive, and funny to me as well, ah facebook!
  8. Cant sleep, dont know why but. where have you gone to aaron ? left you a pm in case you come on, hows your girlfriend going ?
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  10. Originally posted by Buttons:Cant sleep, dont know why but. where have you gone to aaron ? left you a pm in case you come on, hows your girlfriend going ?

    Sorry I did not add you on Facebook, but I have a policy of only adding people I actually know. That and she ain't my girlfriend (but I feel like I'm making progress.) I texted her earlier asking if she wanted to hang out tonight, but she never got back to me, which admittedly don't bother me that much, since from hanging with her I get the impression she don't check her phone often, and she actually pretty much told me I can come over whenever I feel like it if her car is in the drive-way. I just choose to text her, because I woke her up when I went over a few days ago, so I figure a heads up is nice. Also think I might move to actually calling her instead of texting her. Shows more interest. I'll call her tomorrow if the weather is nice, because we where discussing shooting off some high grade fireworks I got ahold of, if she gets out of work early enough, and it stops raining for more than five minutes. If its rainy, or she works to late, I'll see if she wants to hang Sunday, since we are both done working by noon.

    Last time I was over (we finally stapled the rug), she seemed more flirty. She kept poking me with various tools, and pieces of carpet, including using a vaccum on my ear lobe, which she joked gave me a hicky, and didn't seem that bothered, when me and her grandmother joked that if it was visible for any length of time, that I should tell everyone she gave it to me. Also when I was leaving, she made me stay about five minutes longer so she could show me her skimpy french maid halloween costume.

    So yes, I would say I am making some progress, if not an exceptional amount. I have a few game plans, to use depending on what happens next time I hang with her.
  11. thats great aaron, im happy for you, see there is light at the end of the tunnel,
    thats ok if you cant add me on facebook