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  1. im missing a shrink... been in the valley of deep shadow for too long that even my mother doesnt understand me, so i have nobody to talk to and i get desparate and i crack and stress and only a lord would understand me but cant talk to him for the moment so mum is my only release and not a very good one either, besides im supposed to keep busy....and marry someday somehow

    aw aaron thats ''sweet''.. i say go for it.. worst that can happen is she doesnt like you and call up the cops because of evident stalker (joke lol)
  2. Sweet? Not creepy, and desperate?

    Being perfectly honest though, well I was starting to make a half ass effort, what got me dedicated to actually trying to make a real good one, was I had a borderline near death experience a couple weeks back. Followed by a drunk epiphany, where I realized there is absolutely no good reasons not to try.
  3. if she likes you.. then a lady loves creepy and desparate it turns more into romantic and charming provided you dont look like a eugene lol sorry my bad manners a little class dont hurt..
  4. I have no idea what she thinks of me, although if I had to guess, I'd say she don't dislike me. She at least thinks of me in neutral terms if not positive ones, I'd guess. Also I suspect she suspects I like her, or at least did at one point.
  5. My gameplan, is to just stay as calm and cool as possible no matter what. Gonna try to get her to catch up over coffee, and if that goes well, I'll ask her out properly, and or tell her I like her. I'm prepared for just about any answer, from her telling me to fuck off, and that she never wants to talk to me again, to her confessing that shes secretly in love with me for years, although I think we can agree, its most likely gonna be between those two extremes. Honestly I think at this point I would prefer the first answer though. Get it over with. Get closure, and walk away.
  6. thats tricky.. ive had guys like me and never had a clue until they drop it all on me and its a very awkward position to be in for the person unaware, you kinda feel bad for them you dont feel the same way but if you like them its a sweet surprise your kind of waiting for it to be said, so who knows she's probably waiting and is shy
    i say go for it while your alive and young or old for that matter
    i hope she feels the same way, you likeable
    as long as you dont push her away with your spontaneous cold i dont give a F!@# remarks you come up with sometimes
  7. I woulnd't mind just hanging out with her, even if she ain't interested. Shes like one of my 3 favirote people ever to talk to.

    I ain't got that good a read, because like I said, I've known her a long time, and don't see her with any kind of regularity. there have been times where I thought she was at least somewhat interested, but people change.
  8. Also far as I know, she don't find that many guys who are interested in her, so for better or worse, that may influence her decision
  9. what ever you do dont look at other girls or flirt with other girls when your with her, its a turn off, most guys think girls like it and that they are hot bc they can get any girl they like but its not true, the girl 1 is thinking, im not getting his undivided attention 2 any second i turn my back he will screw around 3 he's a liar and no family man
    and whatever you do dont stare too long without saying anything at the wrong moment because she will think your a bit nutty
  10. On the rare times I see her, I always try to get direct eye contact. She don't seem to look away, or face away from me when I do. Most people say this is a decent sign far as body language goes.
  11. Also last time I talked to her, I thought she may have been blushing a bit, but I ain't sure.
  12. it is as long as its not too long with no response and you only just hooked up,
    yes i understand if it happens when you have been seeing her awhile and there's a special moment, well that moment is just lovely but not when you are just hooking up its just imbarresing instead..

    brb keep chatting im going to be 5 mins down the road to get espresso
    dont go anywhere if you canotherwise till next time
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