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  1. thats tricky.. ive had guys like me and never had a clue until they drop it all on me and its a very awkward position to be in for the person unaware, you kinda feel bad for them you dont feel the same way but if you like them its a sweet surprise your kind of waiting for it to be said, so who knows she's probably waiting and is shy
    i say go for it while your alive and young or old for that matter
    i hope she feels the same way, you likeable
    as long as you dont push her away with your spontaneous cold i dont give a F!@# remarks you come up with sometimes
  2. I woulnd't mind just hanging out with her, even if she ain't interested. Shes like one of my 3 favirote people ever to talk to.

    I ain't got that good a read, because like I said, I've known her a long time, and don't see her with any kind of regularity. there have been times where I thought she was at least somewhat interested, but people change.
  3. Also far as I know, she don't find that many guys who are interested in her, so for better or worse, that may influence her decision
  4. what ever you do dont look at other girls or flirt with other girls when your with her, its a turn off, most guys think girls like it and that they are hot bc they can get any girl they like but its not true, the girl 1 is thinking, im not getting his undivided attention 2 any second i turn my back he will screw around 3 he's a liar and no family man
    and whatever you do dont stare too long without saying anything at the wrong moment because she will think your a bit nutty
  5. On the rare times I see her, I always try to get direct eye contact. She don't seem to look away, or face away from me when I do. Most people say this is a decent sign far as body language goes.
  6. Also last time I talked to her, I thought she may have been blushing a bit, but I ain't sure.
  7. it is as long as its not too long with no response and you only just hooked up,
    yes i understand if it happens when you have been seeing her awhile and there's a special moment, well that moment is just lovely but not when you are just hooking up its just imbarresing instead..

    brb keep chatting im going to be 5 mins down the road to get espresso
    dont go anywhere if you canotherwise till next time
  8. I'm a believer in eye contact when I talk to people in general, though, which makes it harder for me to gauge. Honestly at this point, if she tells me to fuck off, she never wants too see me again, I'd be content. I can walk away, have closure, and know I finally said something I have wanted to for years.
  9. Honestly if I knew that was gonna be her answer, I'd be alot less worried. I feel if I handle how I tell her at least somewhat well, she'd at least consider giving me a chance, at least let me be more of a friend if nothing else, and that's what scares me
  10. wow you really dig this chic, i agree in eye contact too but just not staring at the beginning thats all..
    well i wish you all the best, make sure you smell nice and hair is tidy
    im happy got my coffee and custard tart, naughty i know but ive been pretty good lately
    btw i think your young enough to be my son lol..
  11. I'm good at the art of eye contact without staring. I find if the other person is uncomfortable with it, they wont meet you on it direct anyway. Last time I talked to her, she was facing me, and she did not seem uncomfortable with the direct eye contact. I think she may have even been blushing a little, but I'm not sure. Hard to tell between lighting, allergies, etc. It was awhile back, when I was being more half ass about this. Before I really got dedicated to making an effort.

    I'm almost 25 btw.
  12. I'm afraid I've horrendously misread everything, and she secretly hate my guts or some shit, and I'm just gonna look like a dumbass.
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