On the rare times I see her, I always try to get direct eye contact. She don't seem to look away, or face away from me when I do. Most people say this is a decent sign far as body language goes.
it is as long as its not too long with no response and you only just hooked up,
yes i understand if it happens when you have been seeing her awhile and there's a special moment, well that moment is just lovely but not when you are just hooking up its just imbarresing instead..
brb keep chatting im going to be 5 mins down the road to get espresso
dont go anywhere if you canotherwise till next time
I'm a believer in eye contact when I talk to people in general, though, which makes it harder for me to gauge. Honestly at this point, if she tells me to fuck off, she never wants too see me again, I'd be content. I can walk away, have closure, and know I finally said something I have wanted to for years.
Honestly if I knew that was gonna be her answer, I'd be alot less worried. I feel if I handle how I tell her at least somewhat well, she'd at least consider giving me a chance, at least let me be more of a friend if nothing else, and that's what scares me
wow you really dig this chic, i agree in eye contact too but just not staring at the beginning thats all..
well i wish you all the best, make sure you smell nice and hair is tidy
im happy got my coffee and custard tart, naughty i know but ive been pretty good lately
btw i think your young enough to be my son lol..
I'm good at the art of eye contact without staring. I find if the other person is uncomfortable with it, they wont meet you on it direct anyway. Last time I talked to her, she was facing me, and she did not seem uncomfortable with the direct eye contact. I think she may have even been blushing a little, but I'm not sure. Hard to tell between lighting, allergies, etc. It was awhile back, when I was being more half ass about this. Before I really got dedicated to making an effort.
when someone makes me blush it means they have caught me out thinking something naughty and it has happened to me before so she must like you
who cares only dumbass once with her if its the case its a chance well worth taking
im almost 40 btw lol
i dont care for age honestly
i like older men always have, but there was this one time i was having a friendship with a 16 year when i was 27 and he did make me think twice which was a surprise to me, but i behaved myself
Like I said though, I'm not sure if she was blushing. I know she normally has a rather pale complexion, but theres a number of things that can make ones face red.
Who knows. Maybe shes into me, and is just as lost and scared as I am. Seems unlikely, but would be adorable, lol.
Mostly I find myself chasing women slightly younger than myself, although not exceptionally so. Also, worth noting, I do tend to get along with older women. Have a number of them as platonic friends.
why should it seem unlikely
afterall you said you have been friends a long time in that time im sure feeling have shown and been avoided but the friendship lasted which is a sign
who knows maybe she has a picture memory of the outlines of your structure and face and well knows your nature all too well from the times you have shared together
and you just dont know it
