This is like a trifecta of shit going bad here. Now she knows I like her, she ain't interested, but she wants to be nice, so she cant just tell me straight up, and I look like a coward.
wait a minute, stop assuming her feelings towards you, she knows your interested or you wouldnt ask, and a christian is not allowed to mislead a person or play with their emotions, if she is a true christian she would say she doesnt want to hang out but likes you as a friend therefore not getting your hopes on high into saying lets go out but with friends
i know, but please by all means dont believe shes not interested, i truely believe the opposite but you have to see that religion is strict and alters ones susceptible behavior and so you will not be able to read her unless your a christian, yes christians can be polite and friendly but by all means are not allowed to mislead anyone on or play with ones feelings when aware they are interested its a sin and has to be avoided, thats if shes a true christian and she also could possibly be really shy, especially around people shes attracted to and she probably is scared she dont trust herself around you on her own and christians are not allowed to date on their own
You dont understand. I needed her to tell me to go fuck myself. I needed this to be over, so I could get on. She sounds at least somewhat interested. Now I essentially have to try, or shes gonna wonder why I didn't, which is either gonna make her think our mutual friend lied to her, which will hurt their relationship, or that I think I decided something was wrong with her, which will hurt her self esteem. I am stuck making an effort now, which I will find a new and interesting way to fuck up. This is the worst day of my life.
a christian is also very compassionate, tolerant and understanding, thats if shes a true one, she already knows people are liable to stuff up hence why a christian is taught to be long suffering, one of the bible qualities of love, gees ive put up with the net a long bloody time
to me it looks like she likes you, so now you have to either pursue your interest in her, or blow her away, your lucky shes a christian, she has patience and understanding and all the good qualities on her side instructed in fear of breaking the rules of not loving thy neighbor or God properly