Originally posted by wtshnnfb01:Yes, I'm sorry. Still don't think you where right, but there was no need to be such a dick on my part.
apology accepted
i hope you get yourself sorted with your shrink
and you may think i was wrong but i was only telling you what the girl believes in being a christian
In fairness there are many different variations of Christianity. Shes a Luthrean. She seems to be of the type that follows it pretty strictly herself, but tends to not be overly preachy to others about it.
My issue was you where basing your advice around the idea shes into me. I highly doubt this, and in any case it don't matter, because its a dead horse. I'm moving on with my life. There comes a point for every man, where he must realize that some dreams are best to let go of. Make no mistake, I'll be crazy about her, till the day I die, but I just ain't naive enough to see anything good coming from it.
well im sorry, i guess it would be nice if we could see in ones mind how they feel about us then trust would not be a stressful issue,
but i hope you discussed this with your shrink, it would be a good idea
i have nobody to talk to, and since i dont trust anybody i have no assurance so im dying inside with all the negatives that plague my mind and its killing me and my mother slowly because she dont understand, and i have no cure i think bc reading minds is beyond a reality
Lol, my shrink really thinks trying would be a good thing for me. She kept saying the girl wants to hang out with me. I kept saying, she said she would if she was asked, which is an entirely different thing. My shrink said, if she didn't want to hang with me, she would not have said, she would say yes, if she was asked.
Honestly, I know her wanting it to be a group activity, because shes socially awkward, is like consistent with everything I know about her personality type. That, and I find when women go with group activities because they aren't interested, usually the a:don't give an actual explanation, it just happens, and b:usually with women you know better, hence its a common symptom of the friend zone. Given her personality type, and the fact, I've talked to her maybe three times in the last year, the fact she would prefer a group activity don't mean she ain't interested. In fact, it may be a sign of interest if she is actually afraid about being socially awkward in front of me.
I don't care though for a simple reason. Some people are better off single. I just happen to be one of them.
There is something very noble, and poetic about knowing a girl you have liked for years, seems to be at least somewhat interested, and being willing to walk away, because you know it is the correct choice.
im glad you talked with your shrink
i dont like dido all that much either but the lyrics to that song are my life story
i dont know what real anymore but i still have to pick and choose even if i dont believe
heck im a christian but i dont even trust...authorities.....!!!! all of them, so what do you do, pray and wait anxiously with no answers on medication that already makes you anxious and fearful
