1. Originally posted by drewhiggins:[..]
    How about:

    Look for more work, if not then stick at it...I'm having to move half-way across the country just to find a simple job, so I know how shitty it is. Is there a lack of work where you are?

    Tell her either love up or get out.

    Cut the friends who aren't worth it. It sounds difficult but surprisingly easy...keep just a few and be with the ones who give a damn.

    And as for the studying 3 years of your life for something you had no business in, go for something else if possible. Can you?
    Just venting. Have actually taken steps atvall of those. And have made progress.
  2. Okay. And how've you made progress - which areas?
  3. Originally posted by cesar_garza01:Try being poor in a third-world country and in the most dangerous city in the world, trying to make ends meet, watching innocent people being kidnapped, murdered, and fearing for your own life. Then you can complain about life.
    I almost died working in a fast food joint.
  4. What were they serving there?
  5. Have changed my major, looked at careers I feel would suit me, have cut out people I feel I don't need in my life, and have been talking to her which well she has complained to someone a bit about it, I find it understandable, and does not sound like she was that hostile about it, and under the circumstances I honestly would have been shocked if she was not at least a little annoyed. Also saw a shrink and have been looking into religion.
  6. I am trying. Just like bitching and I like being able to blame someone. Thing about improving yourself is if it goes wrong its my fault.
  7. Sign maintenance in a blizzard.

    Either it's really early and I can't comprehend or that made no fucking sense.

    Have changed my major, looked at careers I feel would suit me, have cut out people I feel I don't need in my life, and have been talking to her which well she has complained to someone a bit about it, I find it understandable, and does not sound like she was that hostile about it, and under the circumstances I honestly would have been shocked if she was not at least a little annoyed. Also saw a shrink and have been looking into religion.

    Is changing your major going to get somewhere?

    Good, chop off the rind to the bacon. The rind is the shitty bit, the bacon is better.

    Keep her on your side best you can and see where it goes. If it doesn't end well, leave it and try again later. Get the other shit out and done, then get into that...do you need someone to truly make you happy or are the current ones just gonna drag you down.

    Religion, eh. What religion are you going for? Buddhism has always been a good one. Ever tried meditating?
  8. A caution bar on a sign in the drive thru broke lose in a blizzard. I was the guy they sent out. No real choice with a religion yet, just in general. Also on the love life issue I am assuming she wants nothing to do with me which I acknowledge is stupid as the evidence shows shevat least likes talking to me.
  9. Ah right, I see now. Sorry about that.

    Keep in mind about the religion and see what works, but you probably know that already. With her, just be sure she's not taking you for 'a ride', otherwise it's not worth waiting around for her.
  10. Well she's the honest type. I don't think her being kind of pissed at me for a legit reason means much one way or another and I think if she really wanted me gone she would just say so, especially since I implied that to her.
  11. but hes always changing his mind about her