yes and you answer for yourself alone too...
especially when you screw up or are in trouble
so dont blame me if she dont like you
just remember i think love is important in life
but love that is lived with passion and longing
something you lack i think
i wanted to help you because loneliness
makes for the best and happiest marraige
and lacking all those things forms an appreciative longing
and understanding
but strangely you seem to lack that and find your own substitues
love should be passionate and desparate
not wishy washy its not about being cool
its about feeling passion and deep love
to make it withstand the biggest sunamis
so to speak
and still have the fire ablazing
not if it causes one suffering and unhappiness
i do, what i know i can manage and be happy
no-body chooses to live miserably and suffer want and needs
people can manage it if theres fairness involved
but if there isnt you press on to where you know
you will be happy
is your happiness truely healthy... even if it feels good....
you see to even pursue someone and want them to have something to do with you when it comes to relationship
you have to think seriously and responsibly
your life is all for that person and youself only
and her life should be all for yourself and hers only
then the children
provided everything is fair and sensible and does not jeopardize your
castle or your bunka however you like to picture your combined unit
some people are a public toilet and some people are fort knox, you can google that one