is your happiness truely healthy... even if it feels good....
you see to even pursue someone and want them to have something to do with you when it comes to relationship
you have to think seriously and responsibly
your life is all for that person and youself only
and her life should be all for yourself and hers only
then the children
provided everything is fair and sensible and does not jeopardize your
castle or your bunka however you like to picture your combined unit
some people are a public toilet and some people are fort knox, you can google that one
you cant ''be'' what destroys your relationship
you have to become one like fort knox as a co-operative unit
and dispell all the bad traits that destroy what could make your
unit prosper
then and only then
can you make mountains move - together not apart
there is where the heart is
and sentiment
and self sacrifice
and laughter
and joy
if you are happy the way you are
and expect her to put up with it
your only thinking of yourself
and she will not be happy
and you will not prosper together
neither will you be fort knox
neither will you move mountains
instead it will be a battle ground in your own home