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  2. Need some help reading between the lines.



    So this morning I was talking to my lady-friend. It was a vey nice conversation, we were both laughing, and getting along well. (I'd probally be talking too her now, but I ain't seen her since around noon. She seemed like she might be sick with something, so I woulnd't be suprised if she sent an email to our Englsih professor stating she didn't feel well and would miss class(something she has done a number of times. Always with a legit reason, but you can fail the class if you miss it too many times regardless)and took the early bus back too town. Admitedly I feel like I may be coming down with something. As much as I like her, I hope I didn't get something from her).


    So among other things she was telling me about her uncles wedding. Included in this was the facts that her cousins were trying to get her to dance with a guy from the wedding band (sounded like she didn't). Maybe I'm reading too much into this, but was she trying to tell me that she doesen't have a man in her life right now? The implication being that I should make a move.


    Personally I feel I may be reading into it way too much, but its nice to get a second opinion.
  3. until she clearly tells you she has someone (if she really has) you are entitled to assume she's free .. so make your moves
  4. Logically she does not as if she did, she would have been dancing with him, and her cousins would not be trying to play matchmaker. (like I said sounded like she didn't dance with him.)
  5. Don't overthink things too much. I often do and then things get weird, but probably only in my mind.
  7. Originally posted by wtshnnfb01:Logically she does not as if she did, she would have been dancing with him, and her cousins would not be trying to play matchmaker. (like I said sounded like she didn't dance with him.)

    Unless her boyfriend wasn't invited? Then he wouldn't be there to dance with and she wouldn't dance with someone else out of respect for the man she loves...

    I'd take Ronnie's advice, if she hasn't mentioned someone else, then assume she is single. If she is with someone, you won't lose her as a friend, so it's not the end of the world. Who knows, she may be playing the exact same game for you. Her cousins trying to set her up however, points to either her being single or them wanting some childish fun.
  8. If you feel like you have a chance, try. Otherwise you're sure to regret it.
  9. Originally posted by iTim:[..]

    Unless her boyfriend wasn't invited? Then he wouldn't be there to dance with and she wouldn't dance with someone else out of respect for the man she loves...

    I'd take Ronnie's advice, if she hasn't mentioned someone else, then assume she is single. If she is with someone, you won't lose her as a friend, so it's not the end of the world. Who knows, she may be playing the exact same game for you. Her cousins trying to set her up however, points to either her being single or them wanting some childish fun.

    Shes really been opening up me me lately about things like her friends and family. I feel if she had a boyfriend she would have told me by now.

    She also isn't the kind of girl men tend to line up for(granted most men only look at the superficial side of things). She is not very atractive(although she does have very pretty eyes), and a personality that can be somewhat annoying(one of the things we got in common). She is also very openly religious (but not overly preachy) which I know is a turn off for some guys.

  10. Thursday I dont have the class I normally have after the class I have with her(its also her only class on that day). I was considering asking if she wanted to go up to the rec center to play some golf or b-ball. The old date thats not a date ploy. Just two friends engaging in a non-romantic activitie.
  11. Sounds like it could be a plan. "Date that's not a date" can turn on you too though. Good luck if you go for it!
  12. Five to one odds I dont do it.

    I get the impression she might make the next move if she has too but would prefer not too.

    It would be funny though for her to kick my ass at b-ball (I enjoy sports but suck at most).

    I've said it before. I'm more comfortable in dangerous situations, than I am around women I like.
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