Yeah it can be! I found that if you pay a compliment like ie You know what I like or love about you is that you are so straight forward blah blah blah..............................
If she smiles and goes shy but agrees, she likes you alot!
If she slightly justifies herself that she is like anybody else, she only likes you as friend but doesn't mean you cant change her mind.*inserts cheeky smile*
and lastly if she answer straitght forwardly with you and jokes, shes comfortable with you and see's as a good friend but you perhaps have hit a sore spot in a good friendship or you have found your soul mate, hard to tell between the two.
But thats just telling you from some women, some women are different
Tuesday morning I was talking with some of my guy friends over her. She kept looking at me. She was trying to take a nap, so it could have been she was pissed off, but her expression seemed more upset than mad.
The reason I ignored her was my friends (god bless them) are quite frankly assholes (I still love them), and I'm not really comfortable having the kind of deep conversations that I have with her, when there around.
Rest assure though, I talked with her a fair amount latter. Evidently I got close enough to her to catch whatever bug she had.
One thing I've noticed is she tends to talk a little bit quieter to me than too ther people. I think this is a ploy (presumably subconscious) to get me to either lean in, or move closer too her.
Well to be fair I tend to overthink stuff. There could be any number of reasons why she would choose to talk quieter too me, or it could all be in my head.
One incident that makes me think she likes me was one time she walked a good distance out of her way to ask me to watch her stuff when she went tothe ladys room. Usually when she goes to the bathroom, or to get lunch, etc she just leaves her stuff behind.
Also a few minutes after that she took her sweater off, but commented to me that she was going to before she did. Bringing attention to the fact that she was taking off a piece of clothing seemed flirtatious.
And you have made no moves? hehe!
How frustrating-,Also a few minutes after that she took her sweater off, but commented to me that she was going to before she did. Bringing attention to the fact that she was taking off a piece of clothing seemed flirtatious.
What constitutes flirting between two introverts is lame by anyone elses standards (we're both the type of people you usually see reading a book, or playing on a laptop, during free time).
I'm partial too looking in her eyes. Usually she does not look away, and has what I call "The happy eye gleam" when I do it.
Whatever is happening, lap up all the feelings, because its wonderful, whether you meet at college, cafe, movies,through church, parties, through mates etc, just enjoy the moments, because they become treasured memories, whether good or bad. Lets hope good
Well we talk to each other about fairly personal things. That seems like a good sign (I confessed to her that I had not spoken to my father in 8+ years. She was not judgemental or mocking about it.)
Shes told me alot about her family, nothing impotant but shit you dont tell random people. I'm starting to open up to her but I have a fairly hard time trusting people.
We can discuss religion without it getting awkward. That seems like a good sign, (anyone who says they have never felt awkward during a conversation on religion is lying).
True!
Well enjoy yourself, you never know you may bump into her and not expect so, now that would be fun, you could go on a date or something? Whatever happens, best wishes to you!
No body want to be close to anybody unless they like them 
