Waking up from some admirer wanting to go out with you for coffee is rather annoying and then having to find excuse to politely say you dont want to go is another thing..
He's ok but im interested in someone else not him, how do I get rid of him nicely ??
If it were the girl you liked how would you like to be told that,
because its not easy as said?
How would you like to be told that without feeling hurt or offended?