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  2. In all fairness, Buttons has a love life almost as fucked as mine. (and wont just friendzone the guy)

    You guys gonna help me or just be dicks? Like I said, I've had depression in the past. Yeah, hers is stress based, but I know what its like to just want to not get up in the morning, because you feel no matter what you do is useless.
  3. Originally posted by wtshnnfb01:I'm thinking of sending her a message on FB, saying if she ever needs anyone to talk to I'm available, but I don't know what to say, and she dont get on FB much anyway.

    SMS, Whatsapp or even better; call her. Let her know you are there if she needs someone, woman like it when a man is sweet.

    Or at least that is mine experience
  4. I don't have her phone number.

    I worry alot about anyone who is even remotely close to me. I've had friends who've been suicidal before (thankfully none of them took the final step) and I don't want to be there again.

    I know that as much as I want a relationship with this girl I will gladely sacrifice any chance I have if it helps her with this.
  5. Remember, the medium is the message. A facebook message means less than a sms. Make sure the medium is strong enough to send your heavy message or it will look poor.
  6. Originally posted by fabian:Remember, the medium is the message. A facebook message means less than a sms. Make sure the medium is strong enough to send your heavy message or it will look poor.

    These are wise words.


    Sadly, as he has stated before, he doesn't have her phone number


    Anyway, see you all tomorrow
  7. I figure a private message over Facebook will be fine. Just don't post it on her wall.
  8. It will be just fine. Casual, not special.

    Stay safe everyone.
  9. Wanted to tell her today. Coulnd't find the words. Ironic for anyone who knows me.
  10. I have a tendency to play Jesus to the lepers in my head.
  11. Aaron, if you don't have her phone number, Facebook messaging her is a good idea- but be sure to leave your own number if you do. That way she knows that she has a much more personal way of getting in touch with you if she does want to talk.

    I wish you the best of luck!
  12. To give her my number or not. Honestly, for the time being, I've largely stopped seeing her as a potential object of my affection. Now first and foremost she is a friend who is down.

    Didn't seem like she was overly thrilled to see me today (although she was not hostile later), but the fact that she told me about her issues, would indicate that she sees me as someone she trust. Shes genreally the trusting type, but depression is something I would consider very personal. Alternatively she could have just been having a bad day (as someone who has had depression in the past, I can say I had days where a private U2 acoustic concert woulnd't have done anything to make me happy). I made sure to end our meeting by giving her a compliment.
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