1. I'd say switch "available" for either "here" or "here for you" and you've got yourself a winner.

    As for going down your own past, it may be a road necessary to go down in the interest of you showing enough trust in her that she'll feel comfortable talking about it with you.
  2. I was thinking maybe I'll listen would be a good way to phrase it. Also I think in regards to should be replaced with about.

    I know I might have to bring them up, and honestly shes someone I can picture myself opening up to about my issues, but I just thought that if it did happen it would be latter. Guess its true how they say the past sneaks up on you.

    Course I have to find out about this my worst week of the year as far as mental function goes.(the time change ruins my brain for a week.)

    I seriously doubt anything bad will come from me sending a message, but what I have to decide is if its worth the chance of having to bring up my own issues. In contrast to her, which just seems to be a case of the stress of college catching up to her, I have some deep dark scary shit in my closet, and I don't go in there without a floodlight, a shotgun, and a SWAT team on standby.

    Like I said, I'll likely send a message tomorrow. When and if she gets back to me I don't know. She don't use Facebook much these days, but odds are she gets updates sent to her email, and I vaguely recall her being the type that checks that regular. If nothing else I'll be making an effort.
  3. In all honesty, I would've taken out "In regards" because it makes it sounds as if you are writing a letter to your council.

    What Tim suggested to say is pretty much what I would say so I would base it around that.

    Best of luck. Everyone else has given the best advice that tops anything I could possibly give.
  4. there's been a lotta talk(/think) about this next song....maybe maybe too much talk
    while maybe someone else is doing facts ...
    (impression)

    do not waste too much time thinking and rethinking and re-re....
  5. Originally posted by clover68:there's been a lotta talk(/think) about this next song....maybe maybe too much talk
    while maybe someone else is doing facts ...
    (impression)

    do not waste too much time thinking and rethinking and re-re....

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    Good morning / afternoon / evening / night for you all It's raining cats and dogs over here and I'm happy that I went out for a walk and got soaked and got back home and had a hot shower and aaaaahhh
  6. Morning everyone. Please help me getting Song Survival 2.0 started. It will be slow and clumsy at first, but will work in the end...


  7. Originally posted by KieranU2:In all honesty, I would've taken out "In regards" because it makes it sounds as if you are writing a letter to your council.

    What Tim suggested to say is pretty much what I would say so I would base it around that.

    Best of luck. Everyone else has given the best advice that tops anything I could possibly give.


    I also should accept the possibilty that doing this might ge me firendzoned.
  8. I agree with Kieran. First thing I noticed was the formal 'in regards'.

    Try this instead:
    Hey, I just met you and this is crazy, but here is my number, so call me maybe?
  9. Originally posted by fabian:I agree with Kieran. First thing I noticed was the formal 'in regards'.

    Try this instead:
    Hey, I just met you and this is crazy, but here is my number, so call me maybe?

    Dont work. I've known her over 5 years. 3 year gap in there where we never saw each other is probally why I'm not in the friendzone to the 10th degree.
  10. So any advice about how to avoid the friend zone in this situation?