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  1. Any recommended U2 songs to listen too in my predicament?
  2. Yes, women like it when you listen. I'm lucky in that I remember minor little details about people. I can recall conversations with many people over many years, even people I no longer know. So bringing up past points of conversation isn't too difficult. Sometimes it surprises people because they've forgotten and expect me to have forgotten too.

    But yes, keep showing her that you're not only listening to her, but interested in what she has to say too. Once you start to open up to someone, you start to trust them. You have to, they know things that others might not. It sounds like she is quite comfortable with you, it sounds like she does trust you. And in today's world, trust is a little hard to come by.
  3. I too have been blessed with the ability to remember minor things. Very useful for someone studying for a career in law enforcement.

    I'd say shes comfortable around me, but the fact that she trust me means less in my opinion since she seems to have a predisposition to trusting people. I have a much harder time. I have opened up to her enough though to tell her that I have not talked to my father in years, and admited the embarasing story of accidently destroying a family heirloom.

    On a random note, I know a thing or two about body language, and hers says she likes me, but the question oviously would be, whether or not its on a subconscious level.(all body langauge being subconscious, but whether she likes me being the thing that may or may not be subsconscious). This morning I got the impression, that she was annoyed with me for not saying anything to her when I first saw her, and being somewhat obnoxious with my friends. My friends are jerks. There fun to be around, but I dont like having the kind of deep conversations I can have with her when there around.(I got along well with her later in the morning).

    Also I appreciate you guys letting me turn this into the "Aaron bitching about his life thread". I dont like discussing these issues with my real life friends, and you guys tend to give decent advice.

    Plus I think Sergio is just happy to keep me out of politics.
  4. Another between the lines thing I just realized. She always finds an excuse to take her phone out when I'm around. Not as a avoidence measure, usually too show me some pictures or something, and she actually had a conversation going with me, well she was texting her friend. Seems like this could be interpreted as her implying I should ask for her number.

    Romance has got to be easier for dumb people.
  5. hahahaha that "ask number" theory sounds so absurd that it's actually making sense
  6. When you go on your date that's not a date, give her your number. "Do you want my number, just in case something comes up and you can't make it?" If she wants it, she'll say yes.

    Don't just ask for her number unless you have a reason to have it.

  7. I'll go Crazy if I Don't Go Crazy Tonight

    What does ur lady friend think of U2?
  8. Originally posted by iTim:When you go on your date that's not a date, give her your number. "Do you want my number, just in case something comes up and you can't make it?" If she wants it, she'll say yes.

    Don't just ask for her number unless you have a reason to have it.

    I'll have to remember this one
  9. Originally posted by iTim:When you go on your date that's not a date, give her your number. "Do you want my number, just in case something comes up and you can't make it?" If she wants it, she'll say yes.

    Don't just ask for her number unless you have a reason to have it.

    What the iMan said

  10. Now you know how my mind works.
  11. Originally posted by iTim:When you go on your date that's not a date, give her your number. "Do you want my number, just in case something comes up and you can't make it?" If she wants it, she'll say yes.

    Don't just ask for her number unless you have a reason to have it.

    Fine but my idea for a date that not a date, is right on the campus, so if she didn't want to do it she could just tell me.

    Also your assuming I actually go through with the "non-date" idea.

  12. U2 has never come up. All I know about her music taste is she enjoys, country, christain rock, asian bands (dont ask), and classical.

    U2 is something I could picture her enjoying though. Listening too each others music seems like it could be a good date idea for two people who are fairly introverted, and broke.
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