1. True objectivity is the greatest thing in life.
  2. not if it causes one suffering and unhappiness
    i do, what i know i can manage and be happy
    no-body chooses to live miserably and suffer want and needs
    people can manage it if theres fairness involved
    but if there isnt you press on to where you know
    you will be happy
  3. Don't use the word fairness. Its a word weak people use if they don't get their way.
  4. bullshit
    its a word using compassion and understanding

    but in your case it would be weak cause you dont get your own way
  5. I could care less if I don't get my own way. I'm actually a very good sport.
  6. sport lol
  7. Its the truth. I will happily give up my happiness for others.
  8. is your happiness truely healthy... even if it feels good....
    you see to even pursue someone and want them to have something to do with you when it comes to relationship
    you have to think seriously and responsibly
    your life is all for that person and youself only
    and her life should be all for yourself and hers only
    then the children
    provided everything is fair and sensible and does not jeopardize your
    castle or your bunka however you like to picture your combined unit
    some people are a public toilet and some people are fort knox, you can google that one
  9. I'm trying. Don't know why but I am. Just don't see why everyone wants me out of my comfort zone.
  10. we are not meant to be lonely..
  11. Maybe I am.