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  1. whatever
  2. She forfeited her right to my unconditional respect because she was not honest with me about the issues with me bugging her at work. And it hurts because I do respect her a lot in general.
  3. Shocks me as she has a reputation for being honest regardless of if it hurts feelings. Guess she just don't respect me as much as I do her.
  4. Originally posted by wtshnnfb01:She forfeited her right to my unconditional respect because she was not honest with me about the issues with me bugging her at work. And it hurts because I do respect her a lot in general.
    thats understandable too i fully agree
  5. Guess I'm calm about it now. That really does bother me though. I mean its hardly a bs excuse to get rid of me.
  6. Telling her straight up. Jusk ask if she wants me to go away. Thought I implied it good enough. Guess I did not.
  7. some people show their feelings and some dont..
    i remember my brother had a friend who had a younger brother who met me
    and when i entered into highschool he was there and he used to say hello and told everybody who i was (my brother was popular in high school) so everybody loved me but anyhow his best friend the young brother im talking about well his best friend was in my form contact of mixed ages and it was love at first sight
    we occassionally sat together and chattered all the time
    walk to and from school together and basically hung around and forever caught each others eye alot and it was obvious to my friends the feeling was mutual
    but he never made any big move in school time other than put his arm around me
    anyhow i left school and so did he but we caught up at a mates place and parties
    and we finally hooked up we got it on and then went our separate ways
    needless to say i visited my brothers friends younger brothers place one day and we had a long chat and it turns out that he had a crush on me since the first day he met me and that he told his best friend to leave me alone
    and i told him sorry i only liked him as a friend and always have been interested in his best friend
    so thats why his friend could never be involved with me even though when we got it on he said things you dont say to a floozy but things you say to someone you liked a long time
    anyway i went my own way and met my daughters dad
    but i was shattered to find out when i broke up with my daughters dad
    and i was single again that my old school crush
    had hung himself in his rodeo outfit bc of drug debts
    he would have never gone that way if life had of turned out his way
    his mum died of cancer when he was in his primary years and he ended living
    a hard life
    but he was the sweetest funniest heart
    and was very nice in appearance
    so sometimes its worthit to speak your mind aaron
    and to watch the female third party
    when talking about the one you like..
  8. The female third party is my best friend, like a sibling, and happily engaged. I trust her, I just think her logic ain't the best. She puts too much stock in single things outside of context. Only way to ever know for sure is if its straight up admitted. I don't see what sounds like it was mostly some fairly passive complaining about what I consider a legit issue to mean much one way or the other.
  9. well thats good to know..
  10. In fairness I never asked if itvwas straight up said. Just some casual probing. I know if I got the exact words I'd over think it. Trust. When I say "well it sounds like the main issue is my bugging her in work could get her written up" I trust my best friend to say if a lack of interest was just straight up stated. Kind of funny, even when choosing not to take her advice I still have to trust her. I also presume she would have told me if the vibe was overly hostile. Well she thought I should quit, she did not argue much with my sticking with it. If it was a straight up hard no I think she would have tried harder to talk me out of it. We have enough connections if she was seriously wanting nothing to do with me I would have heard. Just not sure which is harder for me, having faith in other people or myself.
  11. thats a tough one but i dont like going through anyone else than the individual if i have a choice
  12. I like being able to place blame with others. Its a fault of mine. Seriously though gossip is bad in this town, and we do have enough connections that I feel she wanted nothing to do with me I would know.
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