1. I enjoyed the Robin Hood with Kevin Costner in it.

    We have hung out together, a few times in high school, and later college, although nothing much.

    Known her about 7-8 years. Like I said, high school, and college for awhile.

    Shes pretty normal. Comes from a nice family. Her dads a bus driver, her moms a school teacher. She has a bunch of family in Indiana, and Ilinois.

    Yeah, I know alot of that kind of stuff about her.

    You remember a couple years back, the girl I was trying to make an effort with who was having reacurring panic attacks, and I was losing my shit, cause I wanted to help her, but I could not? Its the same girl.
  2. I wish I could tell you she feels the same was but I can't sorry not telepathic but the only other negative I can think of is she's very friendly and can be mistaken for liking someone more than she actually does but that is a rare quality in people nowadays
  3. Originally posted by Buttons:I wish I could tell you she feels the same was but I can't sorry not telepathic but the only other negative I can think of is she's very friendly and can be mistaken for liking someone more than she actually does but that is a rare quality in people nowadays
    Shes really nice, but in a quiet low key kind of way.
  4. On the issue of it being the same girl, I tried getting over her. For while, it worked, but nope. I cant walk away. Sometimes I wish I was a sleazy asshole, who could just go to a bar, take advantage of some drunk sluts, and walk away, without actual feelings getting involved.
  5. Wow that's wonderful , you know what she has a past trauma on something, do you know what it is? Bc that would make you more understanding towards her and bring you both closer
    Sorry she has them though, I do remember you mentioning her a long time ago
    Panic attacks are not pleasant, my daughter and I both get them
    Mine are due to fear most of the time it's bc of fear and anxiety on some cases it can just be alcohol addiction or just a rare experience for no apparent reason but it bring on fear of getting them again
    You need to find out why she's getting them and hopefully your not the reason
  6. If I had to guess, its because shes high strung because her mom raised her to be a perfectionist. I've discussed it with her a couple times prior, but not that in depth, just that I hoped she was doing well, that I know that kind of thing sucks, and that I missed talking to her.
  7. Her mum obviously just wants her to be sensible,strong and firmly grounded for a good future or she could really like you so much that she's nervous it shows around you and gets panick attacks, lol now that would be nice haha
  8. I've had lots of past trauma and my medication causes fear and anxiety hence why I get them and councillors won't help I'm too deep and you can't bring back the dead or make miracles happen again before my eyes otherwise you could fix me lol
  9. She was not getting them around me. I know she is a perfectionist academically, and musically (she has a decent singing voice, and is a very talented horn player), and also that her family sounds pretty traditional, and religious. Sheltered upbringing. I can see how someone like that could have anxiety issues, you know? I know she was seeing a therapist, but have no idea how much it helped. Actually kind of makes sense to, that neither me, nor our mutual friend heard back from her, since it probally made her less social than she used to be
  10. There's probably various issues and story line doesn't help
    And people on the outside who know nothing of it or think they do probably make it worse I call it the stupid bus
  11. I'd like this to work. I don't think its gonna though. Honestly, I hope she just politely tells me she ain't interested so I can get over her.
  12. I don't, I hope it works out, I think it's just what you need, to feel one with someone feel happy to wake up in the morning and likewise for her, she sounds really sweet although highly strung, you know a stray dog loves you best