1. I can understand that, but it's a chance you take, at least she's a nice girl from what you say, not into drugs, alcohol, popular boys, money like some girls are, so you can't go wrong, the chance you take is being hurt bc it don't work out.
  2. Meh, I'm worried I'd fuck it up, that I've wasted over half a decade avoiding it, and that I'll have to admit I'm a coward for not trying sooner. Closure is easier.
  3. I understand but if your a good man , and I know you don't believe in the lord but if your good ,don't forget he can foresee what is going to happen and has backing in every other way for your best interest of any outcome, so don't stress, just remember those supporting you bc they will be there in hard times
    The lord already knows what's going to happen, so don't worry about stuffin up, worry if you fail bc that is desaster on your part and you may be hurt and suffer loss
  4. I have no idea what I'm doing. I gotta be the only man in history who hopes when he professes his feelings to a girl he has been head over heels for, for the better part of decade, that she says piss off.
  5. And if she doesn't what will you do, in it for the long haul
  6. You will have to make your friendship work and last beyond friendships, make sure she's happy and safe, and make sure you sexually satisfy her, and support her financially if need be and God forbid if female competition knocks her security
  7. It's better than being alone for the rest of your life aaron
  8. I have no idea what I intend to do, if shes interested, which is bad, since I have gotten the vibe she was at least somewhat interested at times. Also with how religious she is, I feel sex is most likely a pretty low priority for her in a relationship. I'd want to make it work if she was interested, but I honestly would prefer closure.

    Also, I honestly have no issues with being alone. In a way it is true freedom.
  9. You don't know what your missing,
    I certainly know what I'm missing
  10. If it's true freedom to be alone than forget her
  11. I like knowing I have nothing to lose. If I wanted to, I could move across the country tomorrow. I could run off, and become a smuggler or mercenary or some shit, and would have no one to answer to for my actions other than myself.
  12. Well with that attitude you may as well quit then, since you don't care for love and the finer things in life