My shrink says, I overthink everything, have a negative self image, focus on the worst possible outcomes, and that my failure to make peace with my past, is having a negative impact on my present,and future.
Unethical, but I am using pissing off people who dislike me to motivate myself to try to be happy. Its working. Only thing bothering me now is that I lack a car, although I don't see it being much an issue with the girl in question. It means I'm ready to try though, because i have moved on to worrying about specific issues in regards to trying, lol.
My shrink says, I overthink everything, have a negative self image, focus on the worst possible outcomes, and that my failure to make peace with my past, is having a negative impact on my present,and future.
Your shrink should have a plaque for stating the bleeding obvious.