No your being negative, we are only given what is known we can handle, lord upstairs knows this and knows what will happen and you don't, if she is your mate and likes you it will work out with or without screw ups but you do have to try and also not be negative
So you should ask her out again and as soon as possible don't let it linger and be sure to flirt
1. I didn't ask her out, I asked her if she wanted to catch up. Major difference. As I said I botched it, but we had been having a nice conversation prior.
2. I suck at flirting, outside of just eye contact, and joking around.Our hands touched when she gave my cash back. Thats somewhat flirty, lol.
Trust me, I know this is stupid. If I choose to do this it is so I can get closure, and move on. There is no way at all anything is gonna come from it, I'd bet money on it.
Well aaron I hope you get closure
I will pray for you
I must go now, I want to go play scrabble and listen to music
You take care and the lord knows exactly what your going to do and is going to act on any outcome that arises so don't worry if it's meant to be it will work out if not it just won't something else will come along
Have faith in yourself and in higher sources
You got any advice for flirting with her well shes working? I'll listen. Like I said, my go to moves are eye contact, humor, and paying deep attention to what she says.
Well I don't know what your capable of but you could look a little at her lips when she's talking and lick your lips and look her straight in the eyes
Or you could rub her back when your both laughing together or when she says something is wrong like sad news
Or if you have been out a lot and you want to tart with her you could scratch your manly area
Or make your self like an animal when eating by taking big bite but not in a pig kinda way but more like a hungry kind of way
You can even suggest how hot you think she'd be depending on what your talking about
Does that help? can't believe I said all this on the net
Oh and you can also play with her hair but please don't mess the style but more like fix it
Any I'm off, music and scrabble for me
Seeya
90% of these don't work well with her working though. I'm sticking to eye contact, giving her my undivided attention, and my sharp humor (I know she thinks I'm funny).
Why does it matter? There is no way in hell anything is gonna come from it. I am looking for closure, nothing more. My ideal outcome is her telling me to fuck off, and that she never wants to see me again, and then I can happily just walk away, get over her, and find someone else. More I think, the more I accept this is a bad idea. I just need closure. If I knew she would react the way I want, I would not hesitate to do it. What if she would consider giving me a chance though? Just better not to know. If she is interested, it sucks, because I know I'd fuck it up. I've made it this long, I can handle it. I don't have to see her. Yeah, she works across the street from me, but I never have to go there. I mean shit, I've gone like 3 years without talking to her before(and she was the one who started talking to me, upon seeing me again), so obviously I don't need her in my life. Just walking away may be the best idea I ever had.
can't believe I said all this on the net