1. Originally posted by wtshnnfb01:Because I do have evidence she is either interested, or at least was at one point. Remember I said we once didn't see each other for like 3 years? She was the one who started like our first 5 or so conversations about running into each other again, when I would have been fine just ignoring the situation. She also seemed to go out of her way to talk to me a few times, and once offered to borrow me a book essentially out of the blue. Since then, we went through a stretch, where I saw her semi regular, and she didn't seem interested, but it could have been a case of the situation not being that ideal for us talking, and since then, like I said, last time I saw her, well she never got back to me, on my offer to catch up (which like I said, I botched) she was facing me most the time we talked, did not break my eye contact, and seemed she may have been blushing. She also kept a decent conversation going with me, where if she wanted to, she easily could have just shooed me thru, since she was working.
    Yep, I'm quoting my own post.
  2. yes more reason to go ahead with your plan, good luck
  3. can you recall the last time you had seen her and what happened
  4. No it ain't. Its me trying to see something, that most likely ain't there at all.
  5. Yeah, last time I saw, and actually managed to talk to her, she was working. It was when I botched my initial attempt at asking her to catch up. I went up to her to checkout, and she said something like "Its been a long time", then I ran my debit card through the scanner the wrong way, which inadverdently led to a nice conversation, about my job, vs her job. I kept eye contact with her, and she did not face away, and like I said, she looked like she may have been blushing. She did not try to rush me through, and she easily could have if she wanted to. I took my leave though, because I didn't want to bother he too long well she was working. Than as I walked away, I realized that for whatever reason I had forgotten to ask her if she wanted to catch up sometime, so I just yelled "Hey, hit me up some time, we should catch up" as I walked out the the door, which looked like it really threw her off. Since I did it as I was walking away, I feel it looked like an afterthought, or she thought I was just joking around or something. I messaged her the next day on Facebook telling her I was serious, but I then phrased the rest really open ended, essentially just saying hit me up at some point, if she finds the time. I know she has a short attention span. In addition it was around Christmas, and shes pretty family oriented, so she was most likely busy with relatives and stuff. Now that being said, I consider her very honest. I feel if she was straight up non interested, she would have said so, and if she had a serious issue with me, she would have defriended and/or blocked me, but she didn't. I also know our mutual close friend, also recently made an effort to get her to catch up over Facebook, and never heard back from her. Also, most of her co-workers seem to like me. If she thought I was a creep I feel she would have told them, and they would be much colder to me.

    Well, what you think?
  6. if she was not interested she would have eyed you to hurry up bc she has other customers waiting and no conversation would have taken place, how interested is the question i can not answer to that scenario unfortunately, id love to say its match made in heaven but i cant
  7. btw dont be too casual on how you ask her out or she will think you do it all the time on a daily basis and its nothing serious for you
  8. special is the key
  9. Like I said, she looked like she was thrown off by me asking her to catch up sometime, but I botched my delivery bad, and did it in a way I could not clarifiy anything to her at the time. But up to that point we had been having a nice conversation, and actually now that I think of it, she seemed to be taking to lead in it, when she could have just said hi, and tried to push me through.
  10. great aaron why would she be doing that
  11. just go ahead with your plans and think positive,
    i have to go, before my to do list, i also have a two hour meeting i have to listen to
    so take care and good luck, hope everything works out
    whats her name btw
    and do you still live at your grandmothers or have you moved into your own place