1. So from what I told you, I shoulnd't feel like a creep for trying again, when she never got back on my previous atempt at catching up?
  2. Keep trying aaron you will succeed I think and no your not a creep for asking twice instead it's sweet
    Today I think I'm going to use cooling instead of bare the weather
    Bc I'm unable to read anything otherwise and I got reading to do since it public holiday today
  3. Well like I said, she looked thrown off/confused more than anything. Like someone who wants to laugh at a joke, but does not actually get it. I'm pretty good at reading facial expressions. She did not look pissed or annoyed. Like maybe she could not tell if I was possibly joking, or just trying to be nice, or something. Given I asked her as an afterthought as I was leaving I understand this. It actually makes alot of sense too, when you factor in, that I think she suspects I like her, or has possibly at least considered liking me, at some point, like a "whoa, is he finally gonna do this now?" kind of thing. Like I said, she also did not get back to my follow up on Facebook, but it was open ended, during a time she was probally busy, and I know she has a short attention span, and that a mutual friend also never heard back from her for an offer to catch up via Facebook. That, and I know she is the honest type, so if she was straight up against it, I feel she would have said so, and if she was seriously creeped out or some shit by me, she could have unfriended, and or blocked me.

    That and all her co workers seem to like me. If she had a serious issue with me, she would have told them most likely, and they would be much colder to me.

    I feel I should try again, especially if she was not sure if I was joking around, or not, doing it again, several months later, shows I'm serious, and genuinely interested in her.

    That being said, I do not trust my own judgement.
  4. I trust your judgement and I must emphasise I'm very honest in fact if I lie my conscience pricks me and I can't live like that do you believe anything I say now? Well you should lol I'm not nutty well perhaps a little like yourself lol
    So what you say sounds like you have done your homework and you can read body language I get the same message from you what you have said and it looks pretty positive, heaven could be on your side go for it
    Hey do you like medieval movies ? I love them but there's nothing much out at the moment
    Brb need to get some water
  5. Some of them. I enjoyed Excalibur.
  6. Everyone I have ran it past says my logic makes good sense. I just cant convince myself.
  7. What about Conan , lady hawk and shows like that series forget what it's called
    Have you been out with her before to have known her like you do
    How long have you known her, did you study her when with her?
    Do you know her life story is it normal or pretty out there
    Do you know her likes and dislikes, what bothers her, her problems and her strengths and weaknesses? Just thought I'd ask
  8. I feel given her honest nature, if she straight up was not interested, she just would have said no to my message.If you suspect someone is into you, and you want nothing to do with them, can any good come, from not telling them? If its a real issue, would it not make sense to even unfriend, and/or block them?
  9. I enjoyed the Robin Hood with Kevin Costner in it.

    We have hung out together, a few times in high school, and later college, although nothing much.

    Known her about 7-8 years. Like I said, high school, and college for awhile.

    Shes pretty normal. Comes from a nice family. Her dads a bus driver, her moms a school teacher. She has a bunch of family in Indiana, and Ilinois.

    Yeah, I know alot of that kind of stuff about her.

    You remember a couple years back, the girl I was trying to make an effort with who was having reacurring panic attacks, and I was losing my shit, cause I wanted to help her, but I could not? Its the same girl.
  10. I wish I could tell you she feels the same was but I can't sorry not telepathic but the only other negative I can think of is she's very friendly and can be mistaken for liking someone more than she actually does but that is a rare quality in people nowadays
  11. Originally posted by Buttons:I wish I could tell you she feels the same was but I can't sorry not telepathic but the only other negative I can think of is she's very friendly and can be mistaken for liking someone more than she actually does but that is a rare quality in people nowadays
    Shes really nice, but in a quiet low key kind of way.
  12. On the issue of it being the same girl, I tried getting over her. For while, it worked, but nope. I cant walk away. Sometimes I wish I was a sleazy asshole, who could just go to a bar, take advantage of some drunk sluts, and walk away, without actual feelings getting involved.