Wow that's wonderful , you know what she has a past trauma on something, do you know what it is? Bc that would make you more understanding towards her and bring you both closer
Sorry she has them though, I do remember you mentioning her a long time ago
Panic attacks are not pleasant, my daughter and I both get them
Mine are due to fear most of the time it's bc of fear and anxiety on some cases it can just be alcohol addiction or just a rare experience for no apparent reason but it bring on fear of getting them again
You need to find out why she's getting them and hopefully your not the reason
If I had to guess, its because shes high strung because her mom raised her to be a perfectionist. I've discussed it with her a couple times prior, but not that in depth, just that I hoped she was doing well, that I know that kind of thing sucks, and that I missed talking to her.
Her mum obviously just wants her to be sensible,strong and firmly grounded for a good future or she could really like you so much that she's nervous it shows around you and gets panick attacks, lol now that would be nice haha
I've had lots of past trauma and my medication causes fear and anxiety hence why I get them and councillors won't help I'm too deep and you can't bring back the dead or make miracles happen again before my eyes otherwise you could fix me lol
She was not getting them around me. I know she is a perfectionist academically, and musically (she has a decent singing voice, and is a very talented horn player), and also that her family sounds pretty traditional, and religious. Sheltered upbringing. I can see how someone like that could have anxiety issues, you know? I know she was seeing a therapist, but have no idea how much it helped. Actually kind of makes sense to, that neither me, nor our mutual friend heard back from her, since it probally made her less social than she used to be
There's probably various issues and story line doesn't help
And people on the outside who know nothing of it or think they do probably make it worse I call it the stupid bus
I don't, I hope it works out, I think it's just what you need, to feel one with someone feel happy to wake up in the morning and likewise for her, she sounds really sweet although highly strung, you know a stray dog loves you best
If that's what you believe than you have not tasted everything in life you only remember when things are falling apart and not when things are built harmoniously together, your just being a negative thinker and a negative or doubtful person gives up too easily, not good you have to have some faith in this aspect...
Certainly you won't be falling alone, if that's what you rub off
I certainly never was negative in my affairs unless the other party was needless to say I never fell singular which is even worse I'm glad to stumble with someone if it were to happen I doubt but if it were to happen better to be working things out in the same boat anyway but even better to not give up bc of doubt and negative thinking on just one side of the party too
I have no idea what I'm doing honestly. Everyone says, I should try to hit her up about catching up again, once I explain my logic to them, about how my previous atempt went. I just don't like looking desperate.